Vanessa Minnillo has insisted she and fiancé Nick Lachey are not planning on starting a family any time soon. The singer said she is not ready for the commitment involved with having children and just wants to enjoy life as a married woman. Appearing on The Rachael Ray Show, Minnillo said: “Let’s do it one chapter at a time, why rush? We have the rest of our lives. If you have children, once they’re there, they’re there. You can’t say, ‘I don’t think I want to deal with you today.’ No, they’re there!”